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Hello and welcome!

You might ask why the name?
Fire & Ice… I think it fits my personality as many of my friends would attest to that… 😀     I am passionate about things I care about.

You might ask why the blog?
I’ve been doing it for quite a while now on another site, not happy, so I moved it here and see if it works better

What is this blog about? Anything and everything.

One of my hobbies is psychology. I say a hobby, because I never studied officially. It became a conscious thought after leaving the old country many years ago. I was trying to understand the collapse of my family, but I will not get into that, too personal and painful.

Working in the restaurant business for 10+ years gave me an insight in the workings of the human brain. Read anything I could get my hands on, but learned mostly by watching people. I studied the face and its expressions, most people don’t realize what could be read from a face, especially the eyes, along with the body language. I stopped reading faces in depth, I don’t want to know more than I have to.

One major observation I have is that people don’t communicate enough. I mean they talk, but do they communicate? In so many relationships I observed that important factor is missing, and I am not talking only about relationships between couples, but parent and child, siblings, friends, co-workers and even fleeting interactions in a store or on the street.

I find most people superficial and shallow. I have prejudices too, I don’t deny it, but I lost a lot of them along the way. I find most people are too self-centered to get past that first impression.

I felt like an outsider most of my life, landing in situations beyond my control and was judged by where I am from or how I was dressed. I am a non-conformist by the so called “normal people” rules, because I don’t accept things without logic or common sense.

Not that I care about what most people I come in contact with say. I only care for the opinion of the people who matter in my life.

I wasn’t always like this, but life taught me the hard way thru many blows, but I think I turned out pretty good.

Laughter and sarcasm are part of my daily life. Life is short and I try to live each day to the fullest. Sometimes I fall short of that goal, and I have regrets, but try not to dwell on them. They surface sometimes when I hit bottom, but I try to get past them. I can’t change the past, only the way I look back on it and what I do with what I learned from it.

I think of my life as a book, still being written, with many chapters, most  of them pretty good, a few of them pretty bad. I guess because I am an avid reader. I read over 250 books a year.

So… I hope you will come back again to read and maybe respond to my ramblings. If it makes you think, either agreeing or disagreeing, then I accomplished what I set out to do.

Happy reading! ‘Till next time.


13 responses to “new place

  1. Congratulations, you have arrived.

  2. Nice, Eniko!!!
    Wanna make your posts so people can share them. This looks really sharp!

  3. You bet I will be back . It has taken me a long time not to dwell on past mistakes and I still find myself doing that. I love your blog and I will be here.

  4. Georgie

    You are amazing. You should write a book. I’ll buy it! Wink.

  5. Gayle

    You’ve been a Fire and Ice gal to a few if us for four plus years, now. The name suits you perfectly, my friend. *hugs* 😉

  6. Reneava

    Best wishes on the new blog my friend!

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